Sexuality is one taboo subject to be told here, on my homeland and as a woman, our sexuality somehow got too much attention more than men. Cleavage, mini skirt, tight clothes. These things triggers many effects like harassment and judgement. A lot of labels put on us, women, who want to embrace our sexuality. One of the labels is Jalang. 'Jalang' in Bahasa Indonesia has a lot of negative connotations such as; bitch and slut.
While there are husband and wife that cheating on their partner, people will easily put a label on woman's side rather than man. Saying she's slut, cheap, or simply; Jalang.
However our sexuality is something beautiful, and colorful. It's not the sexuality that went wrong, it's our minds.