When you become an adult, you need a private room. It does not mean that we can share everything happening everyday with family and friends. If it is a small thing, you can laugh with everyone and be happy, but what is important to you is warming up in your heart and digesting. That is to grow. A branch point of life. You have to find a signpost for the decision in yourself. Advice from others is useless. To do that, you need time to heal wounds in solitude, to work yourself, to warm your heart. The deeper the scratch the deeper it gets. To people called NEET in the whole country, with love.